Friday, June 17, 2011

Confessions of a cloth diapering momma

Tyler wearing a Nifty Nappy Peachy Keen Pocket Diaper
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So once upon a time I was 24 years old and having my first baby. At one of my baby showers my mother-in-law gave me a package of Gerber birdseye cotton flat diapers. She said, "Here these will come in handy in case you run out of diapers." What?!! If you run out of diapers you just run to the store right? #1 I am not an origami artist and #2 GROSS! I thanked her and they made some awesome burp cloths for what would be the first of my four "volcano" babies. (My children have been blessed with my reflux which causes large amounts of spit up to erupt from them)

I never thought twice about cloth diapers until Ella was about 2. I had a couple of online friends who lived in states far from me that had started using modern cloth diapers. They raved of their successes with them and how they were far superior in every way. I had to admit they were adorable and looked comfortable but my baby was near potty training and I wasn't having more children so the cost would not be worth it for me.

Fast forward to last summer. I found myself pregnant with my forth baby. Our income is tight and where was I going to squeeze out money every month for diapers? Especially those first few months when you go through a ton. I suddenly remembered my online friends from a couple years before. It was like a lightbulb went off in my head! If I purchased diapers I could re-use I wouldn't have to budget for diapers. It seemed so easy and it has been.

As I started to research modern cloth diapering I realized there was sooooo much more to this than just saving money. Yes this was my first motivating factor but there are so many other reasons that this has been a great choice for my baby.

It is amazing to me that what was normal for centuries even up until 30 years ago is now seen as weird. And now that I have educated myself I'm okay with being seen as weird.

So why use cloth diapers?

#1 Cost

In a baby's first two years of life they use 6,000 disposable diapers. My boys are generally not through with potty training until age 3 so we will need 9,000 disposable diapers. The average cost of disposables is .23 cents/diaper. That comes to $2,070 to diaper my baby or approx $60/month. When you throw in disposable wipes the cost rises even more.
Plus, plus plus recently Proctor and Gamble and Kimberly Clark announced that they were raising the prices of diapers up to 5%!!! I saw this in action this last week at Walmart. As I was browsing their clearance section in the baby dept I saw jumbo packs of Pampers Cruisers on the clearance shelf. They were size 3, our size in disposables, and 35 diapers in the package. They were not actually marked down. They were the regular price of $8.97. The packages on the regular shelf were also $8.97 BUT there are now only 30 diapers in a package!!!

Tylers newborn diaper "stash" It cost me $165 and diapered him for the first 3 months of his life. During that time I would have spent at least $180 on disposables. I resold most of these diapers for $135. I have kept the small stack on the far left.
 
 
Tyler wearing a One Size diaper at 5 weeks & approx 8lbs. This diaper "grows" with him and will fit until potty training!.

Tyler had some different newborn cloth diapers than he has now. I have resold those and his other newborn accessories like covers. I used that money to reinvest in new larger diapers. The majority of his diapers are one size and will last him until potty learning or 36lbs. We have invested $548 in cloth diapers. You can cloth diaper for even less than that. If you use strickly prefolds or flats and covers you could easily diaper your child from birth to potty learning for $100. Start up costs are obviously high but by buying a little at a time, sewing your own or even buying gently used you can save a ton. When you are done diapering your child you can resell your used diapers. It's a win win!
In a recent article I read:
"As cloth has exploded in popularity, there's grown a judgment of elitism associated with this diapering method, as premium brands available mostly online beg nearly $20 apiece. Stacie Walker, owner of Louisville's Fannies Diaper Service, would love families to understand that "cloth diapering is neither 'hippie' nor 'elitist'. In fact, it's the most non-elitist parenting choice I've made, because disposables are just too expensive for our family budget." The sticker price of cloth creates an illusion that suggests cloth diapering is improbable for most families, requiring a large investment to get started. Admittedly a diaper stash can cost upwards of $500, but families using disposables will spend between $1,000 to $2,000 MORE from birth to potty training--money that could pay utility bills or credit card debt."

But Steph, if you subscribe to Amazon mom and stack coupons you can get 500 diapers and wipes for $9 and some change on Amazon.com. This is true if you can find the coupons but it also brings me to my next point.

Look at that cute littl bum! This is one of our favorite prints from Nifty Nappy.

#2 Health of my baby

Tyler wearing a handmade wool diaper cover..

Disposable diapers contain Dioxin, an extremely toxic by-product of the paper bleaching process. It is a carcinogenic chemical listed by the EPA as the most toxic of all cancer linked chemicals. It is banned in most countries but not the US. In males they believe the use of disposables can be linked to testicular cancer. Disposables have only been around about 30 years. We really don't know the long term affects of using them.

Disposable diapers contain TBT a toxic chemical known to cause hormonal problems in humans and animals.

Disposable diapers contain sodium polyacrylate, a type of super absorbant polymer which becomes a gel like substance when wet. A similar substance was in tampons until the 1980's when it was revealed that the material increased the risk of toxic shock syndrome by increasing absorbancy and improving the environment for the growth of toxic producing bacteria.

Studies have been done linking disposable diapers to asthma.

In May 2000 the Archives of Disease in Childhood published research showing that scrotal tempurature is increased in boys wearing disposable diapers, and that prolonged use of disposables will blunt or completely abolish the physiological testicular cooling mechanism important for normal spermatogenesis.

These are our fitted diapers. They are usually made of natural materials and are very breathable!


Fitted diapers usually require a cover. We have quite a variety!
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When Christian was a baby he had severe reactions to every kind of disposable but one. The only diapers we could buy were the generic ones sold at Harmons.  Every time I went grocery shopping I cleared the shelf as they only came in the tiny packs of 20.  They were different than every other generic out there and they were the only ones that didn't cause him to bleed. Now I know he had chemical burns. I wish I had considered cloth diapering back then. Cloth diapers allow more airflow resulting in less diaper rashes plus there are no chemicals in them.

#3 Conservation!
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When people think of cloth diapers they sometimes assume that the person using them is a "tree hugger" or an extreme environmentalist. As I have researched cloth diapers I have realized this is actually something to be concerned about.
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Over 27 billion disposable diapers are consumed in just the United States every year. The instructions on the disposable diaper package actually says to dispose of all fecal matter into the toilet before disposing of the diaper.  It is estimated that 98% of people do not do this. I know I never have. About 5 million lbs of untreated body excrement, which may contain over 100 intestinal viruses, is brought to landfills via disposables. This may contribute to ground water contamination and attracts insects that carry and transmit diseases.
 
From the Pampers.com website HERE
 
"Waste removal As the Pampers bag recommends, you'll want to dump bowel movements in the toilet. Then just roll the diaper into its backsheet, using the tape or fasteners to keep it closed, and dispose of it in the trash."
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No one knows how long it will take for a disposable diaper to decompose but it is estimated to be between 250-500 years. That means every disposable diaper that has EVER been thrown away is still sitting in a landfill somewhere.
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Disposable diapers are the third largest single consumer item in landfills. In a household with 1 child in diapers disposable diapers represent 50% of the household's waste.
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Compared to cloth diapers, disposable diapers use 20 times more raw materials like crude oil and wood pulp. I know what you're thinking. You are wondering about the use of water and energy it takes to wash cloth diapers. Wouldn't that be as big of an impact on our environment? Actually in the manufacturing process of disposable diapers, 2.3 times more water is wasted than washing cloth. Over 300 pounds of wood, 50 pounds of petroleum feedstocks and 20 pounds of chlorine are used to produce disposable diapers for ONE baby for ONE year. Holy Crap!
Diapers hanging to dry inside the house.
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Now I know what else you are thinking about. You are thinking about the mess and the POOP and the time and the washing! Well I am here to tell you that it is not any harder than using disposables.   Remember you are suposed to get the poop off of disposables and into the toilet before throwing them away.  Modern cloth diapers go on and off just like disposables. Now some mamas do prefer to go old school and use flats, prefolds and pins but there are SOOOO many choices out there. There's even diapers that dad's will use without complaining. There's cool inventions like diaper sprayers that wash the poop right down the toilet and with an exclusively breastfed baby you don't have to worry about the poop because it's water soluable. As far as washing. I just toss everything in the washer, run them through a rinse, do a hot wash and double rinse and we are done. Some of my diapers I dry in the dryer and some I hang up. I am the mama that has line dried all my kids clothes for 12 years so it's no big deal to me.
Diapers ready to be put away.
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The one thing I love about cloth diapering is it is fun! I love all the prints and colors. I love how soft they are and how cute they look on my baby! It's actually addicting! They are super fun to buy and collect!
Look at all the colors!
Look at some of our cute prints!
It's like a whole wardrobe for my baby's butt!
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Does this mean I never use disposables? Nope. We still use them sometimes. All the generous gifts of disposables I was given before Tyler was born were put to good use and I was so grateful for them. I am also grateful for the opportunity I now have to educate other parents on the benefits of using cloth. I love how much money I am saving and will save over time. I love how much better they are for my son and his delicate skin, and I now can say I have made a difference!
Tyler likes them too!
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Here's one of my favorite vidoes:

And another from Julie the maker of Rump-a-rooz diapers. Warning you might need a Kleenex for this one!

Monday, February 1, 2010

February Food and updates

Sorry I've been MIA for a while. I just figure if I don't have other important things done around the house, with my kids, etc. I have no business on here.

I have started a new spreadsheet for grocery spending tracking for the year. I found it on another blog and when I get a minute I will add a link. It has a tab for every month. It tracks savings including store specials, coupons and rebates.

For the month of January I spent $243.19 and saved $449.32!

Both freezers, the fridge, and every nook and cranny is packed with food. I am confident the only thing I have to buy for the month of Feb is milk! Of course I'll get my produce and bread from the coop.

Speaking of the coop it has exploded in Utah! The little site I started in Mendon is busting at the seams. We have bumped up our site to 120 baskets and are now running every Saturday!

I've continued cooking. I got a little lazier over Christmas and a bit in January. I cooked a few more processed meals but I'm ready to focus on eating healthy and trying new things this month.

Here are a couple of my favorite new recipes from last month:

I made these for my neice's baby blessing. I asked what I could bring and I was told muffins. Well a lot of peopled ended up bringing muffins so only a few of mine were eaten but I'm so glad I tried these. They were so easy and I don't think I'll go back to boxed mixes again.



To Die for Blueberry Muffins
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
3/4 cup white sugar
1/2 teaspoon salt
2 teaspoons baking powder
1/3 cup vegetable oil
1 egg
1/3 cup milk
1 cup fresh bluberries
1 teaspoon vanilla

1/4 cup white sugar
1/4 cup brown sugar
1/3 cup flour
1/4 cup butter, cubed
1 1/2 teaspoon cinnamon


Directions:

1. Preheat oven to 375 degrees F. Grease muffin cups or line with muffin liners.

2. Combine 1 1/2 cups flour, 3/4 cup sugar, salt and baking powder. Place vegetable oil into a 1 cup measuring cup, add the egg and enough milk to fill up the cup. Mix this with the flour mixture. Fold in blueberries. DO NOT OVER MIX! Fill muffin cups right to the top, and sprinkle with crumb topping mixture.

3. To make crumb topping: Mix together 1/4 cup white sugar, 1/4 cup brown sugar, 1/3 cup flour, 1/4 cup butter and 1 1/2 teaspoons cinnamon. Mix with fork, and sprinkle over muffins before baking.

4. Bake muffins at 375 for 18 minutes then turn up the oven to 400 and continue baking until tops are golden brown.

These were really yummy and I think this recipe will work for more than blueberry. I also used frozen blueberries and they worked out perfectly.





A couple of weeks ago I was craving some clam chowder. Lately every time I open a can of clam chowder all I can taste is the can. It's so gross so I got a recipe from my grandma.




Bratton's Boston Clam Chowder

2 6 1/2 cans minced clams
1 cup minced yellow onions
1 cup finely diced celery
2 cups finely diced potatoes
3/4 cup butter
3/4 cup flour
1 quart half and half
1/2 teaspoon salt
Pinch of pepper
1/2 teaspoon sugar

Place all vegetables in a saucepan. Drain liquid from clams and pour over vegetables. Add enough water to barely cover vegetable and clams in pan.

Simmer covered over medium heat until potatoes are tender. About 20 minutes.

In the meantime melt butter, add flour and blend in a large pot. Cook for a few minutes. Add half and half and stir until smooth and thickened using wire whisk.

Add vegetables & clams and heat through.

Add seasonings. Add more to taste if necessary.

Top bowls with grated cheddar cheese.


This was so good! I tweeked it a little. I only drained 1 can of clams because I like more of a clam flavor in my soup. I also only had 1 pint of half and half so I used that and 1/2 pint cream and 1 cup milk.


What will be eating in February?

Beef Fajitas
Chili Verde
Navajo Tacos
Spagetti (using spagetti squash & pasta)
Chicken enchiladas
Whole roasted chicken
Pot Roast
Beef enchiladas
Heart shaped personal pizzas
Chicken Noodle Soup
Hawaiian Haystacks
Taco Soup
Sloppy Joes w/homemade fries
Grilled Brats
Glazed Salmon
Lima Beans with Ham
Pork Scaloppini
Pancakes
Waffles
Ravioli
Lasagne
Meat Loaf
Stir Fry

Friday, January 15, 2010

Some of the best ways to donate to the Haiti Relief

Like everyone on the planet I am deeply saddened by the devastation from the earthquake in Haiti. Today I read from someone helping in Haiti, "I don't think that a word has been invented for what is happening in Haiti," he said. "It is total disaster."

To put things in a Utahn's perspective:

Haiti
10,714 square miles
10,033,000 population

Utah
84,889 square miles
2,736,424 total Utah population (2008 estimate)

Add these Northern Utah counties together and Haiti would fit inside.

Box Elder County, Utah
6,714 sq mi

Cache County, Utah
1,173 sq mi

Utah County, Utah
2,141 sq mi

Salt Lake County, Utah
808 sq mi

Total: 10,836 sq. miles

Can you imagine all of those 10 million people living on that tiny portion of the island? No wonder there's so many dead and poverty was so high.

So if you feel so inclined here are some reputable organizations taking donations to aid the people of Haiti. I'm sure there are many others and this list is probably just a small one.

American Red Cross website (link), by calling 1-800-REDCROSS or text the word “HAITI” to 90999, which will automatically bill a $10 donation to your mobile phone account.

So far this text-message and social network campaign via Twitter and Facebook has raised $8 million for the Red Cross' relief efforts in Haiti

Doctors Without Borders: link
Remember Doctors Without Borders lost all three of their free clinics there in the earthquake. :(

Oxfam America: link

YƩle Haiti: link

Healing Hands for Haiti: The organization is filing last-minute paperwork to enable them to legally solicit contributions in Utah. Credit card donations at a secure PayPal link accessible at http://www.healinghandsforhaiti.org/ Or you can send a check or money order to: Healing Hands for Haiti International Foundation, c/o The Treasurer at Healing Hands for Haiti International Foundation Inc., P.O. Box 521800, Salt Lake City, Utah 84152-1800

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints: Accepting donations at http://give.lds.org/emergencyresponse. The church has already dispatched aid to Haiti from their Humanitarian center in the Dominican Republic by truck. This included hygiene kits, newborn kits, tents, water, food. . . The truck arrived in Haiti on Thursday.

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is also sending a team of doctors and medical supplies to Haiti immediately to help care for those injured by the devastating earthquake. The doctors will set up a temporary medical center in a Church meetinghouse in Port-au-Prince. The meetinghouse is largely undamaged by the quake.

Two planes, each loaded with 80,000 pounds of supplies donated by the Church, are expected to leave for Haiti on Saturday and Sunday. The supplies on the planes include 15,000 personal filtration bottles, which can each filter and purify 400 gallons of water. Also included in the shipments are food, blankets, hygiene kits, tarps, tents and other necessities. The first flight will leave from Denver on Saturday, January 16th, and the second will leave from Miami that day or the following day.

Some of the Church’s meetinghouses in Port-Au-Prince are also being used as temporary shelters for displaced persons.

You are also welcome to make and deliver more hygiene or newborn kits to the Humanitarian Center in SLC.

http://www.providentliving.org/content/display/0,11666,3471-1-3262-1,00.html

http://www.providentliving.org/content/display/0,11666,3472-1-3261-1,00.html

Catholic Community Services: The Salt Lake City charity is urging donors to contact Catholic Relief Services in Washington, D.C. (http://www.crs.org/.

International Aid Serving Kids: This Orem-based nonprofit has scheduled its fifth humanitarian health trip to Haiti in February. IASK says 100 percent of donations and contributions will go directly to families in the form of food, medications, vitamins, clothes and school supplies. See http://www.iask4kids.org/donation.html or mail checks to International Aid Serving Kids at 1135 N. 650 East, Orem, UT, 84097. Email idort@comcast.net to become a volunteer or member of IASK, a 503 © 3.

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Can you imagine???!!!!

Can you imagine if this happened to you?
3 yr old opens all the presents Christmas morning before the rest of the family is awake!
*Jawdrop!*

Monday, December 28, 2009

I'm going to say it out loud. . .

(Stephanie, Robbie and Natalie Bullen, Christmas Day 1983)


I've already told my mom. She said my brother said the same thing in the car on the way home today from my uncles funeral so I know I'm not the only one thinking it. . .



It was so nice to be together today as a family just the 5 of us without our spouses or children. Maybe that makes me a totally rotten wife but it was nice to get back down to the level of just us. It hasn't been just us together for 14 years. Thanks Mom, Dad, Rob and Nat for a great day! I really enjoyed spending time with you.

Monday, December 21, 2009

25 random things about me

So I KNOW it's Christmas and I could show you a bazillion things we've been doing, talk about Christmas stuff, etc. But I have about zero time right now. I know I've been rather scarce so here's something that is already saved on my computer.

1. Until moving last year I have never lived more than 15 minutes from my parents, siblings or all my in-laws.

2. My weaknesses are See's Chocolates nuts & chews.

3. I was a gymnast until I was 14 and sprained my back.

4. I ran my first 5K at the age of 7. I ran on the high school varsity cross country team and lettered in cross country in Jr High. I don't even think I can run a mile now.

5. I've sold crap on ebay for 5 years.

6. I used to have a shopping addiction. I was in Gymboree at least twice a week every week for 2 years! Happy to say I've been over it since July 2006

7. When we moved to Petersboro it was the first time in my entire adult life I was not taking care of anyone else’s children. It lasted for about 8 months.

8. I miss teaching terribly.

9. We've owned a Wii for almost 2 years and I've only played it twice.

10. Growing up I had hair past my butt. It was waist length until after Christian was born. I used to spend 2 hours every morning doing my hair.

11. I always wanted 6 children.

12. I am addicted to Star Gate SG-1. We own every season and Brandon and I have spent most Fridays watching past episodes for 4 years.

13. I make several lists every day. I have lists for my lists.

14. My biggest pet peeve is rain drops left on the windshield. Brandon refuses to use the wipers until he almost can't see and it's worse than nails on the chalkboard!

15. I LOVE movie popcorn with LOTS of butter. I buy it even when I'm not going to see a show. Maybe this should be added to the weaknesses?

16. I bake something at least once a week usually from scratch.

17. I am a total sentimental sap and am emotionally attached to everything my children have ever owned. Up until 2 years ago I had never sold or given away one piece of clothing or toy. We are talking 8 years worth of kids stuff!

18. I have a ginormous porcelain doll collection that now lives in Rubbermaid totes.

19. My Beanie Baby Collection is even bigger. Also in permanent moratorium in totes.

20. I almost never go to bed before mid-night and it makes me really tired.

21. I am a Disney Vacation lover. I've been to Disneyland over 30 times. Probably 40 I’ve lost track

22. Brandon and I honeymooned in Disney World with my entire family, extended too. LOL

23. I can't name my children until I see them. My cat has never received a name. Her name has been Kitty for 11 years.

24. Brandon and I are high school sweethearts. We started dating in 1992.

25. I am a laundry Nazi. Everything besides underwear and linens is washed in cold and line dried. It has been really hard in this house but I have not given it up. I iron everyone’s clothes every single day. Even t-shirts and jeans.

Friday, December 11, 2009

Proud Mommy Moment


Last night was definitely a proud mommy moment. Christian had his first orchestra concert. I tried all night to upload these clips to Facebook for the grandparents who were unable to make it to the concert but after an hour of being unsuccessful I gave up. This seems like a better place anyway. Let me first tell you about the program Christian is in.


Mountain West String Academy (MWSA for short) was started 10 years ago by Dr. James McWhorter. A long time resident of Logan, Dr. McWhorter is an accomplished string player. He too is a cellist and has played with the Utah Symphony and the Boston Pops. He is a professor at USU and travels the country speaking and teaching all different kinds of groups and at universities and conducting orchestras for young people. He saw the need in Cache Valley for a quality string program for children. 10 years ago MWSA was started on a shoe string budget with 11 children.


Through generous private donations from many area companies and the support of Cache County School District MWSA now has an orchestra program in every elementary school, with 2 teachers and one aide at each and 400 students district wide. Children can register for orchestra starting in the 4th grade because the optimal age for learning a string instrument is 8-9 years old.


At the beginning of the year Christian came home with papers about MWSA. He BEGGED us to let him sign-up and try. You could see it in his eyes it was something he REALLY wanted to do. If you know Christian he has some frustration issues with lots of things. He gets so frustrated with himself and some situations he cannot be reasoned with. We have been told by a pediatrician he has some OCD tendencies and with age he has been getting worse. We were very hesitant to start an instrument. Especially a string instrument that takes hours of practice before you actually sound like you are playing something. We agreed to let him start and were bracing ourselves for many long nights. Christian chose to play the cello and for a one time $30 registration fee which included all his books, a one time $40 instrument rental fee, and $15 to purchase a music stand he was ready to start.


Guess what? The opposite has happened at our house. Christian loves the cello. He is not frustrated when he can't play it perfectly. He is patient and happy to learn and be taught. The cello has helped him, it's been a form of therapy in a way, and his "freak outs" have been far and in between. What a blessing! Guess what else? Christian has always been an excellent reader reading 3 grade levels ahead since 1st grade but math has not come quite as easy. He has not struggled per say but has been more of average B+ student and found math more challenging. After just a few weeks of playing the cello math came easy! It is a proven fact that when children start playing a string instrument their math and reading scores increase by 2 grades, so C to A. We have seen in happen here. At the beginning of the school year his teacher asked us to write down a goal for the Christian and the only thing I could think of was, "Christian needs to be more positive about math and become more proficient." Math is no longer an issue.


Christian attends orchestra for 1 hour each Monday after school, 1 hour each Wednesday morning before school and we pay $2 on the Saturday's we are able for him to go to a 1 hour "Cello Lab Class" at USU taught by Dr. McWhorter and a few USU string students.


Last nights program featured all 400 string students from across Cache Valley. 2/3 of them like Christian have only been playing for 2 months. The rest have been playing for 14 months. They are all 4th and 5th graders, 9-11 years old. When you consider the short amount of time these children have been playing it is pretty impressive. We were one of the VERY lucky parents to have our child on the front row last night where he could be seen. It was a sea of black and white and moving bows. We were also VERY lucky to get such a great seat. The concert was held at Kent Concert Hall on USU's campus, every seat was filled and it was standing room only!


These clips were taken with my digital camera not a camcorder. There is quite a bit of shaking so sorry. I was also next to Parker who Would. Not. Sit. Still. So there is even more shaking from getting bumped by him. They did play a couple more songs but for whatever reason they didn't turn out. I think it is hilarious how serious Christian is. His bowing is more than cute and watch his hand when he finishes his last "pluck" on the last piece.


Isn't he handsome? Look at his killer tie which I picked out for him yesterday at Dillards. His dad is in love with it too and if it was a little bigger would probably steal it. He also tied that tie himself with zero help. I am absolutely in love with this little boy. He is growing up so fast now. :) and :(




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